Options

Some years ago on Twitter, before Elon Musk was forced at gunpoint to buy it as a consequence of running his big fat mouth in public, a Black woman said about White women giving her hell about her life choices "You didn't MAKE good choices. You HAD good choices."

The people in positions of power, such as people with executive positions in government and in big corporations and people with enormous wealth, are the people deciding what options are available to the little people.

In a sane and healthy world, those people make GOOD options AVAILABLE to "ALL" people regardless of gender, skin color and other demographic details beyond their control that are an accident of birth.

All people except those refusing to be decent people. 

See also:

Civilization 

Outlawry 

Our current penal system is a joke